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		<title>8 Tips for Co-Parenting Success: Summer Vacation with Kids After Separation</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2024 20:39:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<p>Summer vacation is a time for children to relax, explore, and create lasting memories. However, for parents who are separated or divorced, managing summer vacation can present unique challenges. Coordinating schedules, dealing with potential conflicts, and ensuring that the children have a fulfilling experience can be overwhelming. But with effective communication, planning, and making sure to focus on the children, co-parents can navigate summer vacation successfully.</p>
<p><strong>1. Prioritize Communication:</strong><br />
Effective communication is key to successful co-parenting, especially during the summer months. Start by establishing a communication plan with your ex-partner to coordinate schedules, activities, and any other important details. Utilize various communication channels such as email, text messages, or co-parenting apps to stay connected and informed.</p>
<p><strong>2. Create a Detailed Schedule:</strong><br />
Developing a detailed summer schedule can help alleviate confusion and reduce potential conflicts. Sit down with your ex-partner to create a comprehensive calendar that outlines the timesharing schedule, vacation plans, and any special events. Be flexible and willing to compromise to accommodate each other&#8217;s needs and preferences.</p>
<p><strong>3. Focus on the Children:</strong><br />
When planning summer activities, keep the children&#8217;s best interests at the forefront. Consider their preferences, interests, and developmental stages when selecting camps, outings, or vacations. Encourage open communication with your children to ensure that they feel heard and valued during this time of transition.</p>
<p><strong>4. Maintain Consistency:</strong><br />
Consistency is crucial for children, especially during periods of change. Try to maintain consistency in routines, rules, and expectations between households to provide stability and security. Coordinate bedtime routines, meal schedules, and screen time limits to create a sense of continuity for the children.</p>
<p><strong>5. Be Flexible and Cooperative:</strong><br />
Flexibility is essential when navigating co-parenting arrangements, particularly during summer vacation. Be willing to adjust schedules, accommodate last-minute changes, and make compromises when necessary. Practice empathy and understanding towards your ex-partner&#8217;s perspective, and work together to find solutions that benefit the children.</p>
<p><strong>6. Encourage Quality Time:</strong><br />
Summer vacation provides an excellent opportunity for children to bond with both parents and create lasting memories. Encourage quality time with each parent by planning fun activities, outings, or mini-vacations. Focus on creating positive experiences that strengthen the parent-child relationship and foster a sense of connection and belonging.</p>
<p><strong>7. Manage Expectations:</strong><br />
It&#8217;s essential to manage both your own and your children&#8217;s expectations during summer vacation. Understand that not every moment will be perfect, and there may be challenges along the way. Be patient, and focus on finding solutions rather than dwelling on problems.</p>
<p><strong>8. Seek Support When Needed:</strong><br />
Navigating summer vacation as a separated or divorced parent can be emotionally taxing at times. Don&#8217;t hesitate to seek support from friends, family members, or a therapist if you&#8217;re feeling overwhelmed or stressed. Surround yourself with a supportive network that can offer guidance, encouragement, and a listening ear when needed.</p>
<p><strong>Conclusion:</strong><br />
Managing summer vacation with children after separation requires patience, communication, and a commitment to prioritizing the children&#8217;s well-being above all else. By maintaining open communication, creating a detailed schedule, and focusing on the children&#8217;s needs, co-parents can navigate this challenging time successfully. Remember to be flexible, cooperative, and proactive in addressing any issues that may arise, and above all, cherish the moments spent with your children as they create memories that will last a lifetime.</p>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2022 16:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<p>In previous posts, we talked about <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/what-a-judge-looks-for-when-determining-a-parenting-plan/">how a Judge crafts a parenting plan</a>. Judges look at Florida law, under which there are factors used to determine a child’s best interest. Florida Statute 61.13(3)(a-l) were discussed in detail. In this post, the next factors, more specifically Florida Statute 61.13 (m-t), are listed below and discussed:</p>
<p>(m) Evidence of domestic violence, sexual violence, child abuse, child abandonment, or child neglect, regardless of whether a prior or pending action relating to those issues has been brought. If the court accepts evidence of prior or pending actions regarding domestic violence, sexual violence, child abuse, child abandonment, or child neglect, the court must specifically acknowledge in writing that such evidence was considered when evaluating the best interests of the child.</p>
<p>(n) Evidence that either parent has knowingly provided false information to the court regarding any prior or pending action regarding domestic violence, sexual violence, child abuse, child abandonment, or child neglect.</p>
<p>(o) The particular parenting tasks customarily performed by each parent and the division of parental responsibilities before the institution of litigation and during the pending litigation, including the extent to which parenting responsibilities were undertaken by third parties.</p>

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				<p>(p) The demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to participate and be involved in the child’s school and extracurricular activities.</p>
<p>(q) The demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to maintain an environment for the child which is free from substance abuse.</p>
<p>(r) The capacity and disposition of each parent to protect the child from the ongoing litigation as demonstrated by not discussing the litigation with the child, not sharing documents or electronic media related to the litigation with the child, and refraining from disparaging comments about the other parent to the child.</p>
<p>(s) The developmental stages and needs of the child and the demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to meet the child’s developmental needs.</p>
<p>(t) Any other factor that is relevant to the determination of a specific parenting plan, including the time-sharing schedule.</p>

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				<p>Subsection (m) requires the Court to look at evidence of domestic violence and/or sexual violence such as injunctions or arrests; child abuse, child abandonment, and/or child neglect such as Department of Children and Families reports; or any witness testimony of such evidence such as testimony from children’s therapists or teachers.</p>
<p>Subsection (n) examines evidence where a parent has provided false information to the Court about any of these issues.</p>
<p>Subsection (o) is a chance for parents to show who normally cared for the minor children before a divorce or custody case and what parenting tasks they did. If third parties such as daycare or family members cared for the children, then the Court wants to know that.</p>
<p>Subsection (p) requires parents to present evidence of the children’s school and extracurricular activities and who is involved in those activities. Who primarily talks to the children’s teachers and takes an active role in the children’s activities?</p>
<p>Subsection (q) requires parents to be free from substance abuse and keep the children sheltered from any substance abuse issues. This subsection can refer to legal prescription drugs or illegal drugs, as well as alcohol. Drug screens, breathalyzers, and substance abuse evaluations may be potential evidence regarding this factor.</p>
<p>Subsection (r) means that the Court wants to see that the parents are not trying to discuss the case with the children and “turn” the children against the other parent. Sharing Court documents or social media with a child is very detrimental to the child’s well-being. Disparaging a parent to a child is strongly discouraged and judges do not like to see that taking place.</p>
<p>Subsection (s) is all about what the needs of the child are such as tutoring, IEP or 504 plans, special education, etc. The Court wants to see which parent is most capable to meet those needs.</p>
<p>Subsection (t) is any other factor that is relevant to a parenting plan and to the children. Are there any reasons why a particular schedule would not work?</p>
<p>Taken altogether, these factors help the Court decide what is in a child’s best interest and how to craft a time-sharing schedule and parenting plan that works for the individual needs of that family.</p>
<p>Wendy Norman is a family law and <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/">divorce attorney in Jacksonville, FL</a>.</p>

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		<title>What A Judge Looks For When Determining a Parenting Plan</title>
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				<p>In a previous post, it was discussed general rules for crafting a <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/parenting-plan-after-divorce-in-florida/">parenting plan after divorce</a>. Let&#8217;s look at how <strong>a Judge crafts a parenting plan</strong>. A Judge looks at Florida law which sets out the factors to consider to determine a child’s best interest. The factors in <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/parenting-plan-after-divorce-in-florida/">Florida Statute 61.13(3)(a-e) were discussed in detail</a>.</p>

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				<p style="padding-left: 40px;">(f) The moral fitness of the parents.<br />
(g) The mental and physical health of the parents.<br />
(h) The home, school, and community record of the child.<br />
(i) The reasonable preference of the child, if the court deems the child to be of sufficient intelligence, understanding, and experience to express a preference.<br />
(j) The demonstrated knowledge, capacity, and disposition of each parent to be informed of the circumstances of the minor child, including, but not limited to, the child’s friends, teachers, medical care providers, daily activities, and favorite things.<br />
(k) The demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to provide a consistent routine for the child, such as discipline, and daily schedules for homework, meals, and bedtime.<br />
(l) The demonstrated capacity of each parent to communicate with and keep the other parent informed of issues and activities regarding the minor child, and the willingness of each parent to adopt a unified front on all major issues when dealing with the child.</p>

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				<p>Subsection (f) means the Court wants to hear about the any negative behavior by either parent that directly impacts the minor child. Some examples might be drug abuse or other illegal behavior, and arrests. Exposing the child to inappropriate behavior will be considered by a Judge under with this factor.</p>
<p>Subsection (g) is exactly what you would imagine – a Judge wants to know about the mental health of the parents and the physical health of the parents. A long history of mental health issues that directly affects the minor child is important for a Judge to know about and consider. The physical health of the parent is also important; a Judge wants to know which parent is better physically able to take care of the children.</p>
<p>Subsection (h) means the Court wants to know how the child is doing in school, what activities the child is involved in, and how the child functions at home. A Judge will review consider if the child has had discipline issues at school or has been in trouble with law enforcement.</p>
<p>With Subsection (i), the Court does not want a young child to be asked which parent he or she wants to live with if the child is not emotionally developed enough to do so. There is no “magic age” in Florida at which a child gets to decide which parent he or she will spend wants to live with; this is decided on a case-by-case basis and Judges prefer to keep children of all ages, even older teenagers, out of the courtroom unless absolutely necessary.</p>

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				<p>When reviewing Subsection (j), a Judge wants to hear about each parent’s involvement with the child. Does the parent know the child’s doctor and attend medical appointments? Does the parent know who the child’s friends are? Does the parent know who the child’s teachers are? Is the parent involved in the child’s extracurricular activities? If a parent does not know those types of things, chances are he or she is not very involved in the child’s life.</p>
<p>Section (k) gives a parent the opportunity to tell the Judge what the child’s routine is while the child is with that parent. What is the child’s bedtime? How does the parent ensure that homework is done? When is dinner time? A parent should be able to describe a typical day in the life of the child to the Judge. A parent should also be able to explain their style of discipline for the child.</p>
<p>Section (l) focuses on which parent is best at working with the other parent the best interest of the child. It is important to keep the other parent informed of appointments and issues with the child. When the child misbehaves, are both parents supportive of each other and unified? Or does one parent try to be the “fun” parent, undermining the other parent’s discipline efforts? The Court wants to see the parents trying to cooperate with each other and co-parenting.</p>
<h4>Please look for an analysis of the final best interest factors to come. You can also contact our <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/">Jacksonville divorce attorney</a> office at: <a href="tel:904.306.9926">904.306.9926</a> to request a consultation.</h4>

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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="wpb-content-wrapper"><div id="vc_row-69bc60d81939c" class="vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid thegem-custom-69bc60d8193789206"><div class="wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12 thegem-custom-69bc60d8195a99092" ><div class="vc_column-inner thegem-custom-inner-69bc60d8195ab "><div class="wpb_wrapper thegem-custom-69bc60d8195a99092"><h1 style="text-align: left" class="vc_custom_heading" >Agreeing On A Parenting Plan After A Divorce In Florida &amp; The Best Interest Of The Child</h1>
	
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				<p>One of the most important things for parents to agree on in a divorce is the parenting plan. The parenting plan is a roadmap for how parental responsibility, <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/what-can-i-do-when-timesharing-isnt-honored/">timesharing</a>, <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/holiday-timesharing-tips-for-divorced-parents/">holidays</a>, exchanges of the child or children and other issues will be handled. Sometimes it is very difficult to agree to terms in a parenting plan and a Judge will have to craft a parenting plan for the parents. How does a Judge decide?</p>

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				<p style="padding-left: 40px;">(a) The demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent-child relationship, to honor the time-sharing schedule, and to be reasonable when changes are required.<br />
(b) The anticipated division of parental responsibilities after the litigation, including the extent to which parental responsibilities will be delegated to third parties.<br />
(c) The demonstrated capacity and disposition of each parent to determine, consider, and act upon the needs of the child as opposed to the needs or desires of the parent.<br />
(d) The length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment and the desirability of maintaining continuity.<br />
(e) The geographic viability of the parenting plan, with special attention paid to the needs of school-age children and the amount of time to be spent traveling to effectuate the parenting plan. This factor does not create a presumption for or against relocation of either parent with a child.</p>

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				<p>Subsection (a) means that the Court wants to hear that a parent will encourage the child to have a relationship with the other parent and take steps to make that happen. The Court also wants to know that the parents will honor the schedule or order regarding timesharing and the parents are reasonable if changes in the schedule are needed. For example, if a child were sick and could not travel, the parents would think about the child’s needs before their own and adjust the schedule. Subsection (c) is very similar to this, in that the parents act for the best interests of the child rather than themselves when making decisions for the child.</p>
<p>When reviewing Subsection (b), the Court wants to know which parent will be spending the most time with the child. If a child is at daycare 40 hours a week due to one parent’s work schedule, it may be better for the child to be with the other parent during the week because they work from home and can take care of the child daily.</p>

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				<p>Subsection (d) means that the Court will review where the child has lived the majority of his or her life and who was the primary caretaker and will try to maintain that stability for the child as much as possible. The key to the parenting plan for the child or children is to have minimal disruption in their lives due to the divorce.</p>
<p>Subsection (e) requires the Court to consider at how practical travel for timesharing will be. Geographically, what type of schedule will ensure that the children spend the least amount of time and discomfort traveling? The Court also takes into account where the child’s school is and how far it is from each parent, among other things. If a parent needs to relocate, the parent can do so, but the parenting plan will have to take into account the travel needs of the child or children.</p>
<p>Please look for more analysis of best interest factors to come.</p>
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		<title>How Can I Force My Ex To Pay Child Support Payments?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2020 21:22:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Using Income Withholding Orders to Secure Child Support and Alimony Payments in Florida &#160; You may be tired of receiving...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Using Income Withholding Orders to Secure Child Support and Alimony Payments in Florida</h1>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>You may be tired of receiving child support or alimony payments late or not at all, and you would like to be paid directly from the employer of your ex-spouse or child’s father/mother.  Florida Statutes 61.1301 provides that an <a href="https://www.acf.hhs.gov/css/resource/income-withholding-for-support-form" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">income withholding order (IWO)</a> can be entered once there is an order of alimony or child support by the court.  The IWO must be issued by separate order.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h2>Get Help Filling Your Income Withholding For Support Form (IWO)</h2>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>There is a federally approved and required IWO that allows you to garnish income for child support and alimony.</strong>  <em>See</em> 42 U.S.C. 666, Social Security Act.  Child support arrearages can be withheld also, and the employer/income withholder is given instructions on how much to withhold until full payment is made.</p>
<p>There are very clear rules about the IWO, and an IWO may be rejected, and payment delayed if not completed properly.  An IWO will be rejected if the form does not contain all the necessary information.  In addition, the correct form must be used, or it will be rejected.</p>
<p>In Florida, you must also submit the Florida Addendum form to the court for signature with the IWO.  The Florida Addendum must be used when child support for multiple children has been ordered.  The Florida Addendum must be attached because the IWO form does not contain information that is statutorily required in Florida to be included in all withholding orders.  Because the IWO cannot be altered, the Florida Addendum was created and is used in conjunction with the IWO.</p>
<p class="phone">Income Withholding Orders can be complex and difficult to complete properly.  You need an experienced Jacksonville family law attorney to assist you with garnishing wages for <strong><a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/child-support/">child support</a></strong> and <strong><a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/alimony/">alimony</a></strong> payments.</p>
<h4>Call <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/">Jacksonville Divorce Attorney</a> Wendy Norman today to request a consultation: <a href="tel:&lt;strong&gt;904.306.9926&lt;/strong&gt;"><strong>904.306.9926</strong></a></h4>The post <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/how-can-i-force-my-ex-to-pay-child-support-payments/">How Can I Force My Ex To Pay Child Support Payments?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com">Divorce Attorney Jacksonville, FL</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
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		<title>What Can I Do When Timesharing Isn&#8217;t Honored?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2020 16:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Requesting An Emergency Child Pick Up Order In Jacksonville &#160; When can you ask the Court for an emergency child...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Requesting An Emergency Child Pick Up Order In Jacksonville</h1>
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<p>When can you ask the Court for an emergency child pick-up order? If the other parent takes your child for timesharing and does not return the child, what can you do? What are your options if the child is taken out of the State of Florida?</p>
<p>An emergency pick-up order is an order signed by the Court that directs law enforcement to take your child from the person who has physical possession of the child and deliver the child to your custody. The process is started by filing a sworn motion and you must attach a certified birth certificate. If you have a judgment establishing paternity or a court order showing you have legal custody, you attach a certified copy to your motion.</p>
<h2>Florida Attorneys That Help With Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction</h2>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Compliance with the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA) is a key to ensuring that Florida has jurisdiction. See Section 61.514, Fla. Stat. Florida must be the child’s home state for at least 6 months before the commencement of the proceeding, but there is an exception for emergencies. In Perez v. Giledes, 912 So.2d 32 (4th DCA 2005), the Court ruled that Florida could take jurisdiction to grant a mother an emergency child pick-up order allowing her to retrieve an out of wedlock child living with the father in Georgia. The mother was a Florida resident when the child was born, the child was born in Florida, and the mother returned to Florida after living in Georgia for a year or more between the birth of the child and the time of the order being entered. The father argued that the child had lived in Georgia for over 6 months because he had moved with the child and concealed his address. Because the mother had significant ties to Florida, she was allowed to have the child back and Florida had jurisdiction.</p>
<p>Navigating the rules and law surrounding jurisdiction and emergency pick-up orders can be complicated. You need an experienced <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/">Jacksonville divorce attorney</a> to assist you. <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/contact/">Contact the Norman Law, P.A.</a> for a consultation.</p>The post <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/what-can-i-do-when-timesharing-isnt-honored/">What Can I Do When Timesharing Isn’t Honored?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com">Divorce Attorney Jacksonville, FL</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wendy Norman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jan 2020 15:46:40 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pets are an integral part of our families. We invest time, energy, and love in caring for our dogs and cats. The love and companionship they provide is consistent and without condition.</p>
<h2>How Does Florida Law Decide Who Keeps The Puppy?</h2>
<p>When pet owners are involved in a divorce, who gets custody of the family pet? Though we view pets as part of the family, Florida law is clear – your pet is considered a piece of personal property, similar to a piece of furniture or other household items. Florida law, and the law of most states, does not provide for the concept of pet custody, nor does it provide for pet visitation or timesharing. This is a tough concept to grasp and another reason to work on an amicable separation and mediation to come to an agreement regarding your pet, rather than go to court.</p>
<h3>A Marital Asset and Subject To Equitable Distribution</h3>
<p>If the pet was acquired during the marriage, the pet is a marital asset and is subject to equitable distribution. Obviously, a pet cannot be divided up like a bank account; however, a pet can be assigned a value like any other piece of personal property, and arguments can be made as to why the pet should go with one spouse or the other. If the pet is non-marital, “custody” goes to the spouse who acquired the pet.</p>
<p>For questions concerning <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/modification/">modification enforcement</a> or dividing property during or after a separation, <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/contact/">contact Norman Law</a> to setup a consultation.</p>The post <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/who-gets-the-pet-after-a-florida-divorce/">Who Gets The Pet After A Florida Divorce?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com">Divorce Attorney Jacksonville, FL</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
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		<title>Norman Law Welcomes New Attorney &#8211; Holli Dean</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wendy Norman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jan 2020 04:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Holli Dean Joins Norman Law Jacksonville &#160; Holli T. Dean joins our firm and brings with her a wealth of...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Holli Dean Joins Norman Law Jacksonville</h1>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Holli T. Dean joins our firm and brings with her a wealth of experience and knowledge in litigation and negotiation. Holli has over fifteen years’ experience working for the State of Florida representing Children’s Legal Services, the Guardian ad Litem program, and the Office of Criminal Conflict and Civil Regional Counsel.</p>
<p>Holli has litigated highly complex and contested child abuse trials and domestic violence hearings. “I am a tough but fair negotiator who makes sure that my client’s interests are protected.”</p>
<h3>Adding More Legal Experience In Jacksonville &amp; Matching Our Passion</h3>
<p><a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Holli_Dean_Attorney-1.jpg"><img class="alignright wp-image-1089 size-medium" title="Holli Dean Jacksonville FL" src="https://www.normanlawjax.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Holli_Dean_Attorney-1-214x300.jpg" alt="Jacksonville Attorney Holli Dean" width="214" height="300" srcset="https://www.normanlawjax.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Holli_Dean_Attorney-1-214x300.jpg 214w, https://www.normanlawjax.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Holli_Dean_Attorney-1-104x146.jpg 104w, https://www.normanlawjax.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Holli_Dean_Attorney-1-36x50.jpg 36w, https://www.normanlawjax.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Holli_Dean_Attorney-1-50x70.jpg 50w, https://www.normanlawjax.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/Holli_Dean_Attorney-1.jpg 500w" sizes="(max-width: 214px) 100vw, 214px" /></a>She also has experience with mediations and settlement negotiations to achieve the best possible outcome for her clients. With a specific understanding of mediation, she will facilitate amicable outcomes whenever possible. She will lend her settlement expertise in order for our clients to more easily move forward after litigation. Her goals are in-line with those of our firm, to facilitate settlement as much as possible in an attempt to reduce attorney’s fees, client costs, and lead a less contentious outcome.</p>
<p>Holli is passionate about ensuring the best interest of minor children involved in client cases. “I will fight for the best interest of children involved in my cases and fight for fair and equitable timesharing and parenting plan.”</p>
<p>“We are thrilled to welcome Holli to the Norman Law team,” said Wendy Norman. “Not only is she exceptionally talented, but equally important, she shares our passion for delivering unsurpassed client service.”</p>
<p>Holli holds a J.D. from Stetson University College of Law and a Bachelor of Arts in Mass Communications from Brenau University. She is admitted to the Bar in Florida.</p>The post <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/norman-law-welcomes-new-attorney/">Norman Law Welcomes New Attorney – Holli Dean</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com">Divorce Attorney Jacksonville, FL</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wendy Norman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2016 17:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Child Support Taxes and Child Tax Credit When children are involved in a divorce or when the parents were never...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Child Support Taxes and Child Tax Credit</h1>
<p>When children are involved in a divorce or when the parents were never married in the first place, one parent is usually required to pay child support to the other to help financially provide for the children. Florida wants to ensure that in these cases, children have their needs met and child support is meant to ensure this. When it comes time to file taxes, many parents have questions. A common question is which parent may claim the children as dependents.</p>
<h2>Which Parent Pays Taxes on Child Support?</h2>
<p>Child support is not taxable. The parent receiving child support does not have to report it on their taxes, and the parent paying child support does not get a deduction on their taxes. Therefore, even though a parent is paying child support, his or her taxable income is not affected.</p>
<h3>Claiming a Child on Taxes</h3>
<p>When there is one child and the parents are not together, another issue is which parent can claim the child. The Child Tax Credit can greatly help out one parent, but who gets to take this credit? Under no circumstances can both parents claim the one child. If they do, they are going to find themselves having to answer to the IRS, and may be found to have committed tax fraud. Instead, if the Final Judgment does not address this issue, the parents have to decide who should claim the child on their taxes. In most cases, the parent the child spends the majority of his/her time with should claim the child. Generally, parents choose to alternate years for claiming the child.</p>
<h4>IRS Form 8332 &#8211; Release of Claim to Exemption</h4>
<p>There are also times in which one parent may have the tax credit; for example, if the parent furnished over 50% of the child’s support. In this situation, and others, <strong><a href="https://www.irs.gov/uac/Form-8332,-Release-Revocation-of-Release-of-Claim-to-Exemption-for-Child-by-Custodial-Parent" target="_blank">IRS Form 8332</a></strong> (Release of Claim to Exemption for Child of Divorced or Separated Parents) is signed by the other parent and filed with the tax return. Without this form, the parent claiming the child will have to prove that he or she provided more than 50% of the support for the child. This is an issue parents need to discuss to avoid problems with the IRS.</p>
<p>For those parents who are having a difficult time dealing with filing taxes after divorce, or when dealing with alimony or child support, Wendy Norman is here to help. She has been practicing in family law for several years in the Florida area, and she can help you as well. Just give her a call at <strong>904-306-9926</strong>.</p>The post <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com/which-parent-pays-taxes-on-child-support/">Which Parent Pays Taxes on Child Support?</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.normanlawjax.com">Divorce Attorney Jacksonville, FL</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Nov 2015 18:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>Holiday Timesharing Tips &#8211; Scheduling Help For Divorced Parents</h1>
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<p>When parents are sharing custody of their child, it can make the holidays feel even more hectic. Timesharing during the holidays can be very stressful, and not just for the parents &#8211; often the stress and tension the parents feel is transferred to the children. This is why it is important to remember that the holidays should be about the children. Parents should do whatever is necessary to ensure that their children are not feeling the stress that has come from the parents no longer being together.<br />
With this being said, there are several things you can do to ensure that everyone has a good holiday:<br />
Make sure you have an agreed-upon schedule in place before the holidays. In most cases, the Court will have a recommended schedule for you to follow. Both parents should be following the schedule from the Court or agree on one together so that the children get just as much time with both parents and their families as possible.</p>
<p>Have you considered celebrating together? This is something many parents are able to do if their divorce was one in which feelings weren’t hurt, or when enough time has passed to allow both parents to heal. This can make the holidays much better for the children.</p>
<h2>Don&#8217;t Force Your Kids Choose</h2>
<p>Never make the children choose who they want to spend with during the holidays. It is not fair to them to make them choose, and it can cause bad feelings for everyone. Instead, work together to make sure the children get to see both parents equally.</p>
<h3>Communication is Key to Scheduling the Holidays</h3>
<p>Always check with each other to ensure that your plans with your family do not conflict with their plans. This can be a huge issue during the holidays. Communication between parents is the key.<br />
As a parent, you need to realize that timesharing during the holidays is going to require both parents to compromise. You need to be flexible and realize that neither of you are going to get 100% of the time with the children.</p>
<p>When your kids are with the other parent, instead of feeling depressed and lonely, focus instead on your family and support system. Also, the holidays are stressful and it is important to have a little ‘me time’ whenever you can.</p>
<h4>Consider New Traditions to Minimize Stress</h4>
<p>Timesharing during the holidays can be complicated and stressful. It is important to understand that some of the traditions you enjoyed before the divorce may not be possible any more. However, you now get to create new traditions with your children and family that you will have for many years to come.</p>
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